Cyprus Love Affairs:
Hey Guys: 10 Tips for that first Kiss
Most blokes just don't realise how important
that first kiss is to a woman. Well, this should give them an idea: when he
kisses a woman for the first time, she decides right then and there if she ever
wants to kiss him again. Have a look at these ten tips written by men for men
designed to leave us begging for more. Would they work on you?
1. Do it in private
Privacy is key. A big mistake that too many blokes make is going for a kiss in
the wrong situation. Women want that first kiss to be special, and they'd prefer
to share the moment with you and you alone. So if you're out somewhere social
and you feel like the time is right, take her to a back room or, even better, to
a completely different, more personal location.
change that by being the first to call it quits. Most blokes
go for the gold on the first kiss... and they rarely end up getting it. By being
the one to slow down, you'll show her that you're in control... and most
importantly, you'll leave her dying for more.
3. Suss her out
When you feel the moment is right, reach over and touch her hair while you're
talking and make a comment about it. Say, 'Your hair looks so soft,' and lightly
touch the tips of it. If she smiles, reach back over and start stroking it
again, but this time shift your glance between her lips and her eyes a couple of
times. If she lets you keep touching her hair, you know that she's ready to be
kissed.
4. Be a tease
News flash: there's nothing that women love more than to be teased, so let her
know who's in control by driving her crazy with your lips. Go in like you're
going to kiss her, then at the very last second, pull away and flash her a
mischievous grin. Use this sparingly to keep her turned on and on her toes.
5. Ease into it
Still feeling a little nervous about going in for the kill? Ease into it by
leaning in and smelling her neck. Take a big sniff and say, 'Mmm... you smell
good.' Then slowly brush your nose and cheek along hers as you pull your head
back to make eye contact with her. When your eyes lock, close them and go for
it.
6. Show some passion
Every woman longs to be ravished, so why not make her fantasy come true? As
you're kissing her, reach back behind her and pull her head back by gently
grabbing the hair right above her neck. Slowly kiss your way down her neck and
give her a playful bite, then pull back slightly and breathe heavily on her neck
and in her ear. Make sure your trousers are securely fastened, because at this
point she'll be trying her hardest to take them off!
7. Dip her down
If the mood is right, add some sensuality and chivalry to your first kiss by
gently dipping her down, ballroom-style. There's no better way to make her feel
like she's with a powerful and confident man. Do it right, and she'll never
forget the moment.
8. Use your hands
Women love to be caressed, especially while they're being kissed. Starting above
her ear, run your fingers through her hair, down to her neck and all the way
down her back. Then slowly slide your hand back up again. Use both hands, and
alternate between using your whole hand and just the tips of your fingers to
give her an experience she won't soon forget.
9. Spice it up
Once initial contact has been made, spice it up a bit with some variety. Move
from short, soft kisses into longer, deeper ones, then back again... and don't
use your tongue any more than she does. Change the angle by moving your head to
the other side, and alternate between sucking on her lower and upper lip. Be
sure to stop to breathe after every few kisses. These little moves will let her
know that you know exactly what you're doing.
10. Explore her body
When you're ready to really turn up the heat, kiss her on her neck and
move your lips slowly up to her earlobes and give a light nibble. Don't be
surprised when she starts breathing heavily.
©ivillage - askmen.com
